Take A Look

I’ve become accustomed to filters; The fake lashes, colorful eyes, plump lips and rosy cheeks. It’s the me everyone on social media is used to seeing. It’s the me I’ve become comfortable with. It’s the me that the camera loves. It’s the me who is super confident. But, that person isn’t really me. It’s not…

You’re Not Obligated To Care For Everybody

Did I ever tell you guys I did therapy for awhile? It wasn’t something I had planned on doing but during the time I was unemployed it was an option for me; one that I’m glad I was given and till this day I wish I found another therapist to continue to see. Taking the…

Self-Reflection, Detachment and Me

When I look into a mirror I don’t think I’ve every actually seen myself; not the person on the inside at least. There has always been this shell that I look at on the daily and as much as I love that shell I don’t always like what I see. I constantly pick out flaws…

8 Months Dry

The celibate talk again?? Yes and you’ll hear it as long as I continue to start, stop and restart my journey. The last time we had this talk was maybe 2 years ago when I was on my operation closed legs. If you want to know how that went, I’m sure you’ve already figured that…

30, It’s Officially Around The Corner!

Okay, maybe not that close but after yesterday, 5/14, which was my birthday, 30 is officially 364 days away. Am I scared? Not like I thought I would be because it’s not about the age, it’s about the experiences, the lessons and the progress. I spent so much time thinking I had to have a…